Kink Shaming

Kink Shaming

My Fellow Inmates,

Tonight I would like to talk about a subject that is a misunderstood and potentially lethal weapon in our community.

I speak of course on Kink Shaming.

For those of us who may not know, this is the practice of someone who had to come to terms with their own inner kink feels, playing the high school bully role and taking out the parts of their personal feels that don’t sit well with them, upon another they feel has a lesser kink.

…and to you, my good Sir, let me just say, you are a spiteful motherfucker.

This post may hit a bit deeper than normal, because until you have a friend take their own life… End such a beautiful existence simply because someone else felt it their right to fuck with such a fragile balance in another mind….

I invite you to step back from your ego, your own personal id, for two seconds. Now, kids, analyze yourself. come on, do it,…

Take your time, I’ll wait…

What do you see?

Perhaps a human that has some odd want to dress up as an animal to satiate an otherwise lost libido?

Bondage maybe?

Now lets take a look at how messed up this psychology is:

As Mammals, we all have one thing in common with our animal brethren: Fight or flight. Survival instinct. We are supposed to question the intents of other creatures. In the animal kingdom, paranoia is a trait of those that live full lives.

But we have been bred to be sheep. No different than the pets you keep at home. You feed them because they cant feed themselves, and as the property of our governments they also feed us when we cant be self sustaining, its called food stamps.

We have been fed the notion that this world is safe, this world is peaceful, and somehow billions of different head-spaces and thought processes can live in an “Its a small world” reality of coexistant harmony…

Well, Kids, this is the fucking Savannah, and sweetie, I hate to break it to you, but there be Hungry Lions out there.

Yet as with the animal kingdom we form our packs. We trust another who trusts a 3rd, and it creates a spiderweb of people that support each other due to similar traits, be it you have the same marking patterns as the other deer, or you like to be covered in cow hide while a hairy man shoves his dick up your pooper, and beats you with a dead possum while singing “Fair my god to thee”.

Sexy right?

…back to bondage

Come 13 years of age your dick wakes up one day and due to whatever kind of early childhood trauma, says “Hi, I’m your erection. I demand you break all trust boundaries that you would otherwise never do, and put yourself in situations that could hypothetically result in your death… With humans you call friend, yet never actually know what honestly happens in their mind… just so I can be satiated.

Logical & smart in so many ways, right?

Oh wait… perhaps your dick said you wanted breath play…

Lets take an essential bodily need, and fuck with it…. next comes starvation & dehydration play…

Or perhaps your brain connected earlier… much earlier.

Most boys I have played with who are in to diapers I have asked the same question of… not judgmental, but an honest attempt to find out why we like this kink.

Like all kinks, there is no defining trait, no socioeconomic tie that says “Person x will crave diapers sexually”

What I have found however is a very common tie. Many cubs are boys who really didn’t get to experience those first 10 years in full, as a kid, due to asshole adults fucking up their childhood.

Yup… no seriously, really.

So please remember, while you hate on another’s kink, which to anyone reading this, would be someone who walked their own path of self acceptance… Please understand. I realize that some kink concepts are hard to deal with, and as we get in to the more taboo bodily fluids, we are predisposed to cringe at them. Trust me, I was a pathology assistant for years. first time I cut in to a human body, *Bam* out like a light. lol, thank god I didn’t fall on the scalpel =P

But we need to realize that the psychology of kink is a multifaceted one.

Take a look at furry for example. From my perspective, furry is a sexual community that has a few sticks in the mud. From Kage’s perspective I’m sure it the absolute opposite. Yet not a single one of us can explain the actual mental pathing to the why, and we all know at its heart its supper silly.

So why do we do this? Why would someone who would get hard peeing on a boy in full rubber hate on a boy that wants to piss on himself in a diaper? why would we want to ever push someone who should be an accepted member of our community to the point they would want to take their own life rather than live with who they really are?

Why?

I guess high school never does fucking end does it?

With That, Visiting Time Is Over.

What Ever You Do Don’t Scream Too Loud As Others Are Trying To Sleep.

~Rubberasylum