My Fellow Inmates,

As you may have noticed the Asylum has taken a few steps back in the last 6 months or so… both the site and the actual person. We are fully aware of the issues and trust us, we are far from finished with this whole roller coaster ride… in fact we are just getting started.

So what happened?

Well personally speaking its been a year, a great year of change that has seen 4 breakups for me… Yes, 4… This either makes me a glutton for punishment or someone training to be all pro. As mamma always told me, stick with what you are good at.

If you have followed this site for a while, or my twitter, then you have been with me through all these ups and downs: My times with Rottie, Wetsuitjay, Nonamepup  and Phor. The closeness, the fun times, the downturns, and the partings of ways as well. All a fact of life, yet one would hope they were not so clustered together

So Where does that leave me? 

Very happy actually.

Allow me to tell you a funny story…

I am sure as many of you have noticed, Anji has pretty much taken management of this site over. Most of our posts are by him now. Though I have talked in the past about Anji’s path here, let me share some things you don’t know about my current family.

At the end of July I opened my home to the pup. Many said “Uh, don’t”, but I live my life on a “Let them hang themselves” philosophy. Anji needed a family and I offered him one. As the months went by we realized that he was going to need insurance. The only way to get him on my insurance was to make him either my BF or my domestic partner. He was our pup already so it didn’t matter. 

As time went on, and my BF and I grew apart, Anji and I grew closer. Now before you say it yes, he does have aggravating ways… I also have paddles and canes. He learned quickly that he can push me, but when I push back its time to listen or face the consequences. This works for us quite well. He is a sweet and many times surprising creature who never ceases to amaze. He is growing as well, and I am very proud of him.

Hmm, I got sidetracked… where was I, oh yes…

So a few moths ago Washington state voted to make Gay Marriage Legal. With that the state decided to toss in the typical backlash of “Oh fine, you want this, well then all domestic partnerships shall be now marriages as of 2014… take that faggots!!” 

Marriage…

Half my shit…

I have thought long and hard about this. I have never had any luck with anything long term. Yet, as I was lay in bed one night, with my pup in my arms, I realized .. I have never been this happy before with someone in my life. Ok sure we have disconnects, what relationship doesn’t? In fact like the guy who keeps to himself his whole life until he finally snaps and goes on a murderous rampage, Id be terrified of a relationship that had no issues…

So yes… it appears I shall be getting married, and I am happy for it.

…and to a pup who moved in to my home before I ever met him…

LOL, how life works out sometimes.

Now as for the site… Yes, we are aware of the breaks. Rather than just placing band-aids on an issue we are going to use this as an excuse for bigger and better things. My former IT pup, Moose, has decided to step back, and shall continue hosting the site, and will offer consulting when we need it. We have a new Site Building Pup coming in, and I would expect to see some major changes soon. 

What kind of changes?

Well without going in to too much detail I have always envisioned this site as a place to be and hang out. I have always looked at where we are now as just a part of a larger whole. My goal for this year is a total new face for this site…

New domain names are already registered…

The construction begins soon.

Stay tuned

~Rubberasylum

My Fellow Inmates…

You know its funny to me, I have heard from many over the last month… wondering why I let the new pup just run free and run wild. Pointing out to me how he was disrespecting me, getting mad at him for having an opportunity and pissing one me… and questioning why I wasn’t beating the hell out of him for his actions…

Well, I addressed all of this in his contract he signed today

You see, one would not let a mechanic work on their car who had no idea why it was broken…

So I let him be him for a month, and observed what type of person he was, where the breaks were, where the issues were and where the need for improvement was. 

Today I wrote his contract, and today he signed it. He is well aware you shall all read this….

Here it is… the puppy contract he signed….

Puppy Contract

Intent:

To Assist Anji (Forward referred to as puppy or Dog) in his training: To spell out expectations , tasks, punishments, and goals for the life of this 1 year training contract. By signing the puppy agrees that he is entering this agreement on his own free will and agrees to abide by the terms of this contract and submit himself for punishments as seen fit by his trainer: Rubberasylum.This contract is terminable by either party if they are unhappy with said agreement, or it is not working for them. This contract is tied to the puppy’s relationship, housing and food agreement, and if terminated all other agreements shall be null and void as well. This stated, there is no requirement for the puppy to sign this contract except for the want to change the path that he has been on, and to potentially better his future.

Observations:

For the last month the puppy has been allowed to do his thing, he has been asked to perform tasks to see how he would react and has had no punishment for failure to comply.

-Positives-

The dog is sweet and loving, he seems to genuinely want to please those that he belongs to, often appearing surprised and upset at himself when he is chastised for his mistakes or others are upset by his actions/choices. He takes care of expectations when pushed or focused on. He is emotionally supportive of those he cares for. The puppy has an amazing amount of potential to be a person that others would actively seek out to be a part of their lives.

-Negatives-

He has a tendency to be disrespectful, focused upon himself,and expecting a free hand. Whether lack of want to accept responsibility or lack of a strong hand to teach it to him, he seems to be at want for none. He is reactive rather than proactive., needing to be directed rather than finding projects himself. He has an untrained dog’s tendencies; often biting the hand he expects to feed him,. He has been known to make promises that he does not follow through on, causing others that were relying on him to have to scramble to complete what is needed to be done. He utilizes his creative mind to find ways around being told no,often to his surprise when others are upset, and he has a tendency to bury himself in social media and video games at inappropriate points causing him to put off expectations and seem standoffish to others. Needs to be mindful of tone when addressing his trainer.

Goals:

• Learn to self manage himself and separate what is expected of him from what he prefers to do.
• Learn to accept criticism no matter how hard to hear, asshole bosses exist in this world and the dog needs to learn to accept feedback and productively use it without arguing about it.
• Learn that life is not fair, and if you fight for yourself hard enough you can make anything happen
• Learn to do for himself
• Learn to save for his wants while taking care of his needs
• Learn to drive and obtain a drivers licence
• Obtain a real job and learn to be a contributor to a household

Expectations:

As the dog grows so shall the expectations of him. Until the dog learns to accept criticism and orders without question, he shall not be allowed active employment ,his job shall be working around the house.

• The dog’s housemates are working, so shall the dog. The puppy shall search the house daily for projects needing to be done, he is only awarded a day off when given permission to do so. He will message his trainer and ask before playing video games, playing on his phone, or doing anything else for himself. If permission is given, and his trainer returns to find any project the dog could have taken care of undone, the dog will be punished.
• The dog is lowest member of this house. if he is asked to take care of something by a housemate he will take care of it immediately. if he has to be asked twice he will be punished. If the dog disagrees with something a housemate has asked of him, he will immediately message his trainer of his concern to receive permission to decline the request. if permission is not given the dog will perform the requested task or be punished. (this does not include sexual demands as the expectation would be that the housemates would ask your trainer first)
• Any requests made by the dog’s housemates or trainer shall be received and addressed without attitude or argument. This training is by the dog’s request, making training an uphill battle shall result in punishment.
• In the presence of company the puppy’s requests/demands/preferences do not trump those of the guests’. Should there be a discrepancy between preference and ‘wants’ between the puppy and the guest; the favor will go to the guest by default.
• The dog shall not accept any more freebies, presents, handouts, gifts, assistance, etc in the form of gear, money, tickets, airplane tickets, registration, etc. unless it is a christmas or birthday gift statedly given on or during Christmas or his birthday. This includes people offering extra gear that does not fit them anymore. If the dog has any questions on this he needs to speak to his trainer before accepting or face punishment.
• The dog shall post at least twice a day to the website, and shall now be writing a journal that will go up once a week after it is approved by his trainer. If the dog has a hard time writing or knowing what to write for his journal he should work on it slowly during the week, failure to comply shall result in punishment.
• The dog needs to understand that posting to Social Media directly affects how others view him. Everything the dog puts up is viewable by all and is quickly reported back to the dog’s trainer when a questionable post appears. If the dog wonders if a post is questionable he should inquire about it before posting. Failure to comply to this shall result in punishment.
• The dog shall now always ask permission to play video games. Defaulting to them shall get them taken away. Unless otherwise given permission to do so the dog needs to attempt to focus his video game play on a social aspect rather than an anti social aspect. This means asking others to play, playing games that include a second player or the household, asking someone to play through a one player game with him… etc. If the dog is not given permission to play video games he shall not.
• The dog shall investigate and attempt new hobbies. Many opportunities exist around this house and from friends such as: Music mixing, fursuit making, working on cars, expanding your drawing abilities, building gear, latex work, and more. Skills are marketable and make for a more varied life and opportunities.
• The dog shall be given a cell phone to use that is connected to his trainers account. The dog shall learn appropriate and inappropriate use and times to use his phone, or it shall be shut off and the dog can go without.
• The dog shall be expected pushups and situps daily, going on runs with roommates shall forgo his daily requirement, as long as that can be vouched for. The dog shall be expected to grow in strength, and shall be tested randomly on his progress. Lack of progress or failure to work out shall be punished
• Upon signing this contract you now have a Sir. If you need assistance in utilizing this word, your trainer is happy to help.

Punishments:

It is not the dogs place to decide when he is in the wrong or not. The expectations set forth shall be enforced. If the dog disagrees or argues at the point he is advised of a punishment, the punishment shall end up exponentially worse.

The dog shall be warned of offending behavior before he is punished for it, reoccurring offending behavior shall skip the warning stage as the dog then knows better. the following are potential punishments that the dog may face:

• A Chastity device shall be purchased for the dog, once locked in he shall stay in for the period of days stated, any further offenses will add time to his chastity. Once in chastity the dog needs to earn his way out.
• A Spiked Chastity device shall be purchased for the dog, once locked in he shall stay in for the period of days stated, any further offenses will add time to his spiked chastity. Once in spiked chastity the dog needs to earn his way out.
• The dog can end up locked in his cage during gatherings or parties he would prefer to be a part of, or sent to sleep in his cage rather than sleeping on his side of the bed.
• Spanking
• Paddling
• Caning
• Denial of gear, play, cons, trips, outings, etc as your trainer sees fit.

Rewards:

Moving forward in life is never easy. Changing oneself is never easy. The dog shall find that overcoming major challenges shall come with rewards to him as well. Though said rewards shall not be stated here, trust that as easily as bad dogs are punished, good dogs are rewarded as well.

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Puppy Date

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Trainer Date

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Witness Date

My Fellow Inmates,

I would like to introduce you to Anji. Some of you know him, some of you dont. Since I announced that he was going to go in to training with me, I have received emails from friends all over the US with mixed feelings on this. Some have thanked me, and some have warned me against the dog.

Though I have heard all of you, perhaps I should tell you a bit about myself.

When I was 23 I met my Sir, Mitch Mitchell. I was an emotional mess, on Speed to force myself skinny, and was in the process of trying to get my manager fired in one of the highest paying jobs I ever had. Needless to say I lost that job, crashed out on the drugs, and shattered in to a complete mess. Mitch picked up the pieces and forced them back together in the way he wanted to see them formed. Was it all perfect? Did he mold me just as he would have wanted to see me?

Hehe, not even close. Yet he prepared me to live life and to take on tough challenges without needing anyone to hold my hand through it all.

This is what Training is about. I do not train dogs that dont need me.

So when this stray started sniffing around, I quickly slipped a leash around his throat.

I think he shall be a good fit for us and this site. I look forward to his arrival tomorrow.

The pup has miles of fucking adorable, and I look forward to training him. He shall be moderating this site as one of his duties, making sure daily posts go up. This shall allow me to focus on building other areas of the site which are ready to go and just need my attention.

As for weather or not he will do it… well I shall let him make that choice… My metal paddle is already chilling in the freezer

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With That, Visiting Time Is Over.

Whatever you do dont scream too loud as others are trying to sleep.

~Asylum

My Fellow Inmates…

Life, is well…. Life…

This site started as nothing more than me ranting about things: Life, other people, concepts, Play, Alcahol, Drugs… etc…

People began to know me from the reality that I projected. I called things as I saw it, and said what I was going to say hell be damned who did not like it.

In the last few months, I took a hard shot of reality as my partner and I seperated in March, and I suddenly found myself having to lean on friends and rent a guestroom from Nightcat and Kovu while I spent the summer struggling at squirling money away…

Today I realized that I have forgoten my roots… I have forgotten what made people pay attention too me when I started this whole thing up as nothing more than a blog on Guyzngear 4 years ago.

It was me talking about my life, my thoughts, my vunerabilities… Fuck image, I didnt start this to have an image, I did not start all of this to be “Rubberasylum” that guy you either liked or hated. Asylum, that guy that fanboys have stared at unable to speak, just looking at me with their mouth open…

This is so not me

I have said before that the only difference between me and anyone else is that I know how to promote myself, period.

Today I had a hard dose of reality shoved at me, and you should hear it from me first.

Something I enjoyed quite a bit may or may not have ended… who knows. Today for the first time in a long while I opened up and allowed my real self to be seen, so fucking caught up in image and forgetting what my original point was.

What am I talking about?

Trust me, you shall know in a day or two…

I started this site and all of this as a journal of sorts, a place where I could talk about the growth of a rubber perv comming out of a vanilla relationship thjat caused him a lot of strain. It was very cathartic for me, and it took off… In fact it took off so fast that I got all sorts of caught up in it, and I forgot about the original resourse that was being shown by offering my thoughts and fragilities through my path.

So here I find myself again. With a new set of circumstances.

Its so similar, yet so different.

For the first time in my life I have an ex who I am still friends with…. No, strike that… The day I broke up with WetsuitJay we ended up being mad at each other for about 24 hours… then we went back to being friends. So the relationship didnt work out, but I think we both knew that months before it happened.

Have you ever tried living with one of your best friends? Its tough, and often it taxes the very fiber of the friendship. I think about him quite a bit, I have been in a funk… I have I shall be honest, thats what the original Delusions from a padded cell was about: Honesty.

So then, for those who have been following me from way back when, I am bringing back the padded cell. Its my journal. It grounds me, as Ego is a monster I have fought with ever since I found Ephedra at 23, lost shit tons of weight, and started doing porn…

I could walk in a bar in a catsuit and in all honesty things would stop dead… how do you keep grounded when you can grab any guy in the place and suck their tonsils, and you are allowed?

You cant.

So please welcome me back. For those that enjoy my rants, I am thrilled to offer this resourse to you… everyone else can enjoy themselves with the rest of the content we offer.

For now I am off to bed, lots to share to catch back up to speed, yet I have been working on the site for a few hours and its time for me to sleep.

With that Visiting Time is Over,

Whatever you do dont scream too loud as others are trying to sleep

~Rubberasylum

My Fellow Inmates,

I have been asked by many how they can help out during my time of transition. A few have already stepped up and offered to donate content for posting, and we have already received the offers for 2 bondage beds as well for when we rebuild our playspace come fall…

But still I receive questions… how can I help…

There are many ways that you can step up and add to our community while I put everything back together and gear up for the relaunch of the new space where new videos, pictures, and much more shall come out of…

So how can you help?

First lets start with what we offer our readers, and offer for free…

Asylumcast: A weekly podcast staring Rubberasylum, Sparky, and Daddy Tony (With fill ins by nightcat) where we delve in to the bounds of irreverence and kink on a weekly basis

The Asylum Ezine: Pictures and videos spotighting the best of Rubber, Leather, and Furry Kink on the net…

The Asylum Store: Offering an ever growing collection of gear from some of the best manufacturers on the net.

And much much more to cum… Including new sites, offers, a webcomic, and more… This is our community, run by kinksters, written by kinksters, and offered by kinksters…

So then, how can you help? 

Well from the start I have said I woulod never charge a dime to use this site, and I dont. There are many ways that you can offer to help:

1) Contribute material:  Amazing Kinksters write us every day to offer up their own brand of kink for a one time spotlite post to the site.

2) Become an inmate : Many awesome people have stepped up to share an open look in to their kink lives, you can as well, and become a contributing writer to the ezine

3) Shop Through our Store: All your purchases kick us back 10-15%, so you just buying the toys you were going to buy anyway brings money back to us 

My Fellow Inmates,

As the song says “It was a long December…”

Between 50 hour workweeks, late nights, stress, my birthday party with almost 80 people coming and going all weekend, relationship changes, and general all around chaos… well lets just say I have not been in the mood to focus on my crotch recently…

Yes, I know, someone should alert the media…

But, like every good evil entity, I am back for the sequel, and once again I rise

You have no idea what you are in for this year…

• The webcomic is getting back on track…
• The book is being written on again…
• The podcast shall be coming soon…
• A new live action bondage adventure shall launch this year…
• We have 3 new writers, bringing the list up to 19… 
• Items, only available on Rubberasylum.net shall be coming to our store from major manufacturers…
• A new writing contest shall launch soon…
• And so much more…

…And as the kink re-enters my system, I am starting to hear from people on what they miss from my old blog stream… They tell me that Asylum has gotten way too nice… Nice?… Yes, according to the voices I have left my ranting behind on the old Delusions from a padded cell site, and it is greatly missed…

But, wait… those old rants were fueled by whiskey and a need to lash out at the world in a way to make myself feel better… I was an asshole, I was a narcisist, I was… well, me

So I guess I need to go buy a bottle of Whiskey them

…So as the rashed leather biker whimpers away on the bed in his new helmet, the clock counted down the end of 2011…

Huh, its 2012… according to many we shall die this year…

You hear that boy? Through that gag and earplugs? You hear that? This year is the end of it all… I guess we need to toss caution to the wind and see what your body can put up with this year…

…And if December 22nd arrives, and we are all still here, and your mind has slipped from the torments to befall you…

…Well that’s not my problem…

With that, visiting time is over

Whatever you do don’t scream too loud as others are trying to sleep.

~Rubberasylum

My Fellow Inmates,

Just a few words on the site, which mind you I am thrilled by its seeming success so far. You see when I created this place, I wanted writers in all genres of the kink scene: From Rubberist to babyfur… and we are still in talks to add more. The intention is we all have one thing in common, Kink. Though you as a Rubberist may not get in to the type of cute bondage that someone like Plushomancer is in to, having a window in to his world is fascinating as previously a lot of this stuff wasn’t talked about between our communities…

What makes an AB fetishist want to suck on a pacifier? Why do S/M boys like to get beaten? Is a puppy and furry brothers from the same mother?

Though we may never set foot in each others worlds we do have a lot in common, the major difference to it all is the type of kink drag we wear to do it.

I want to thank everyone who visits here, and all of those who have registered and allowed us to grow as fast as we have so far. There are lots of plans and ideas on the horizon, and I look forward to what the future shall bring us.

Very soon we shall go down for a few days as our server is being upgraded, though we shall be offline for a short time this upgrade shall be in the sites best interest.

Here is to the future

~Asylum